Hey beautiful/handsome. Hope you are doing well. I just wanted to make a quick little post about loving yourself and not worrying about others and what others think and say.
I know that can seem hard to do from time to time because a lot of us let others get in our way with our self-confidence and loving ourselves and our bodies. I am here to say that I have been in your shoes. I have been there where I let others control how I felt about my body. I woke up one day and I realized that I am worthy, that I am beautiful, that I am special and unique.
You can get here as well. Learn to start embracing your body, your curves, your freckles, your glasses, your thick thighs that rub, your flabby arms, your cellulite, and everything else. I know, I know that sounds insane to do! I can assure you that it will take time but you can get here like I did. Look at yourself and tell yourself how beautiful/handsome you are. Look at yourself. Seriously! Go look 🙂 I will wait a minute for you!
OK! What did you see? You saw your beautiful/handsome self-didn’t you? You saw everything that makes you, you. Everything that you think and see as a flaw makes you who you are which is so incredibly beautiful. Always remember that. For real, don’t worry about what others think about you. Love yourself and love who you are. Embrace yourself and your “flaws” and “imperfections”.
If someone makes fun of you for being different than they are, let them. You can’t stop them. Let them take time and waste time out of their day to make fun of you. Yes, I know it can suck and you of course can/should stand up for yourself but you can’t stop someone. Just know that no matter what stand and put your shoulders back, hold your head high and walk with confidence.
Remember confidence is sexy and beautiful/handsome.
Wear what you like and what makes you happy. Don’t worry about what others think. Do what makes you happy and what you like. Let me say it one more time. Wear what you like and what makes you happy (as long as you are not indecently exposed that is 😉 ).
I will talk to you all later.